![]() (I’m not very tech savvy and I don’t know how to reverse it on my phone.Thank you for visiting our Young Perps! We really hope you liked the punished methods applied here. There’s a time and place for everything, and I guess tonight wasn’t it. And I didn’t feel aroused enough so I didn’t want him to touch me without my underwear because the setting wasn’t right. The cold did not turn me on - it did the opposite. Thing is, we were outside and it was really, really cold. He (with my consent, of course) tried the whole rubbing my vagina through my underwear. It was exciting when he unzipped my jacket and touched my thighs and stuff. Hel wrote:Update: So he and I were out tonight, and he asked if I wanted to try the whole fingering thing. Though it was a (mostly) unsuccessful attempt at fingering, I’m still glad he and I are going to try again until we get it right, and that we can talk openly about sex and sexual stuff. Any tips on how I should touch him? I’ll ask him too, obviously, but I don’t have experience with this so I wondered if there were general tips to make it enjoyable for both of us. We decided to wait on that as well so we could both be more aroused - hopefully that will make the experience better. How can I be more turned on?Īlso, he asked me if I wanted to touch his penis and I wasn’t sure - I told him I hadn’t given it much thought. I was a bit disappointed because I wasn’t horny enough to really feel anything when he was touching me down there. I’m hoping that since it will be warmer (and we’ll have more time to be together) I’ll be able to get more aroused and wet. I really want to get aroused! We have the chance to be inside next weekend, so we’re planning on trying again then. ![]() ![]() ![]() Update: So he and I were out tonight, and he asked if I wanted to try the whole fingering thing. That could be around body image - like how much looking or not looking you are okay with, and what you need around that - it could be about what you want from communication and consenting - would you like him to ask you about what he's going to do in a very step-by-step way or more generally? What else do you want from communication? - it could be about things like what you do first: maybe you want to do something first like take a bath together, or cuddle. You might also think about what you want and need from your partner to feel comfortable with all of this, and talk about that together. Since you masturbate, you already have some information from that and what you do to relax on your own that you can bring to this: what do you do to set the stage for yourself, as it were? How do you chill out in your body and mind before and during masturbation? That's often pretty individual, and depends a lot on what you find helps you to relax in general, and then sexually, and with this particular partner. I want this to be a really good experience and I just would like some tips on how to accomplish that. I'm nervous because I've never done this type of thing before but I'm really excited as well because I really trust my boyfriend and we have really good, open communication. Is this a realistic expectation?) Also, will this mean I'm not a virgin anymore, if we finger/masturbate each other? I'm hoping with him it will feel good though because I'll be more aroused. Will it hurt a lot if he puts his fingers inside my vagina? (I masturbate a lot but I've only managed to go inside myself a few times and it's been uncomfortable. He and I are both virgins and we've never touched each other's genitals before. I just have a lot of questions about what to expect. I'm actually looking forward to it a lot. However, I do want him to do it in the near future, so we agreed to do it later this week. He asked if he could finger/masturbate me too, and I said I wasn't ready for that tonight, since it was a lot to process. It's been really great so far - the conversations about sex, touching nipples, etc. So my boyfriend and I have started to talk about sex and be more sexual around each other.
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